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		<title>Maryland H.B. 700 is Killed in Judiciary Committee: Remember Them in November</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:22:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nancy Carroll</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From The Washington Post: AS EXPECTED, the Maryland House Judiciary Committee wrongly killed a bill on Thursday that would have made it easier for victims of domestic violence to obtain protective orders. H.B. 700 would have brought Maryland into conformance with the practices of every other state in the country. As an election-year service to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>From <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/03/06/AR2010030601948.html" target="_blank">The Washington Post</a>:</strong></p>
<p><strong>AS EXPECTED, the Maryland House Judiciary Committee wrongly killed a <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/03/03/AR2010030303476.html" target="_blank">bill on Thursday that would have made it easier for victims of domestic violence to obtain protective orders</a>. H.B. 700 would have brought Maryland into conformance with the practices of every other state in the country. As an election-year service to voters, here is the 15 to 6 vote:</strong></p>
<p><strong>Chairman Joseph F. Vallario Jr. (D-Prince George&#8217;s) did not vote, as is the general practice.</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Against:</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpcurtisanderson.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Curtis S. Anderson</a> (D-Baltimore)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpbenjaminbarnes.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Benjamin S. Barnes</a> (D-Prince George&#8217;s)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpjillcarter.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Jill P. Carter</a> (D-Baltimore)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpfrankconawayjr.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Frank M. Conaway Jr.</a> (D-Baltimore)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpdonalddwyerjr.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Donald H. Dwyer Jr.</a> (R-Anne Arundel)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpwilliamfrank.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">William J. Frank</a> (R-Baltimore County)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpjbjennings.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">J.B. Jennings</a> (R-Baltimore County)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpkevinkelly.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Kevin Kelly</a> (D-Allegany)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpgerronlevi.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Gerron S. Levi</a> (D-Prince George&#8217;s)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumptonymcconkey.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Tony McConkey</a> (R-Anne Arundel)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpvictorramirez.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Victor R. Ramirez</a> (D-Prince George&#8217;s)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpsamuelrosenberg.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Samuel I. Rosenberg</a> (D-Baltimore)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumptoddschuler.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Todd L. Schuler</a> (D-Baltimore County)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpluizsimmons.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Luiz R.S. Simmons</a> (D-Montgomery)</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://dumpmichaelsmigielsr.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Michael D. Smigiel Sr.</a> (R-Cecil).</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>For:</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Kathleen M. Dumais (D-Montgomery)</strong></p>
<p><strong>Benjamin F. Kramer (D-Montgomery)</strong></p>
<p><strong>Susan C. Lee (D-Montgomery)</strong></p>
<p><strong>Susan McComas (R-Harford)</strong></p>
<p><strong>Kriselda Valderrama (D-Prince George&#8217;s)</strong></p>
<p><strong>Jeffrey D. Waldstreicher (D-Montgomery)</strong></p>
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		<title>Attention Maryland Legislature: Someone Needs to Get Laid</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:55:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nancy Carroll</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey, Luiz Simmons, John Edwards called&#8230;.he wants his hair back! The dialog is continuing on the shameful treatment of Amy Castillo during testimony with the Maryland House Judiciary Committee, in particular by batterer-lover Delegate Luiz Simmons.  Maybe it has been a while since Delegate Simmons has been laid, because he seems pretty preoccupied by it. [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>The dialog is continuing on the shameful treatment of Amy Castillo during testimony with the Maryland House Judiciary Committee, in particular by batterer-lover <a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13381.html">Delegate Luiz Simmons</a>.  <span style="color: #ff0000;">Maybe it has been a while since Delegate Simmons has been laid, because he seems pretty preoccupied by it.</span> He appears to relate sex to some kind of marital duties apparently, with him introducing a bill this session being haled by some as a bizarre &#8220;<a href="http://abclocal.go.com/wjrt/story?section=news/bizarre&amp;id=7245839" target="_blank">no sex = divorce</a>&#8221; law.  We do know he loves to protect batterers:</strong></span></p>
<blockquote>
<h5>Tuesday, March 10, 2009</h5>
<h4>Luiz Simmons’ Abuser Expungement Bill (Updated)</h4>
<p><strong>Delegate Luiz Simmons (D-17), who is a <a href="http://www.manta.com/coms2/dnbcompany_3n44r">trial attorney</a>, has introduced <a href="http://house.state.md.us/2009rs/billfile/hb1181.htm" target="_blank">a bill enabling accused domestic abusers to expunge their court records</a>. No, folks, we are not making this up.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Citizens of Maryland, do you really want a pig like this representing you?  Do you want to have your daughter and grandchildren murdered because she couldn&#8217;t get a protective order against an abusive husband?   Call your delegate now, <em>today</em>, and express your outrage at what happened in the House Judiciary Committee, and let them know you won&#8217;t stand for pigs on the <a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/com/05jud.html">Judiciary Committee</a>, or in the legislature at all.  Call House Judiciary Chair </strong></span><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa12315.html">Joseph F. Vallario, Jr<span style="color: #800000;">.</span></a><span style="color: #800000;">,<em> </em>(410) 841-3488, (301) 858-3488, and tell him you won&#8217;t stand for people stinking up the committee.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">This is from today&#8217;s <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/03/03/AR2010030303476.html?referrer=emailarticle" target="_blank">Washington Post</a>:</span></strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<blockquote>
<h3>Md. General Assembly owes victims of domestic violence better protection</h3>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small;">Thursday, March 4, 2010 </span></p>
<p>MARYLAND once again has the chance to do what every other state in the country does in affording protections to victims of domestic abuse. A proposal that would relax the rigid standards for obtaining protective orders is being debated in the General Assembly. Unfortunately, its prospects are not good. We hope, though, that lawmakers wake up to the reality that their refusal to put in place common-sense safeguards endangers lives and makes Maryland a national disgrace.</p>
<p>The House and Senate are considering bills that would change the standard of proof needed to grant a final protective order. The bills, <a href="http://mlis.state.md.us/2010rs/billfile/hb0700.htm">H.B. 700</a> by Del. C. Sue Hecht (D-Frederick) and <a href="http://mlis.state.md.us/2010rs/billfile/sb0823.htm">S.B. 823</a> by Sen. Jennie M. Forehand (D-Montgomery), would replace the current standard of &#8220;clear and convincing evidence&#8221; to a &#8220;preponderance of the evidence.&#8221; Maryland is the only state that uses this higher standard when victims &#8212; and generally they are women &#8212; seek orders to protect themselves from their alleged abusers. In all other civil matters, Maryland courts require only a preponderance of evidence.</p>
<p>Contrary to the fears of some opponents, this would not open up the floodgates to capricious decisions based on false charges. Judges would still be able to judge the credibility of any claim, but they would have more discretion in reaching a decision. Instead of being bound by there being no doubt about a petitioner being in danger, the court would be able to use the more reasonable standard of there being a good chance of danger.</p>
<p>We can&#8217;t help but wonder what the outcome might have been had this standard been available to the judge who denied the request for a protective order from Amy Castillo. <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/10/14/AR2009101402059.html">Ms. Castillo&#8217;s three children were drowned by a father</a> whose threats about killing the children were deemed insufficient for a protective order. Ms. Castillo evoked her tragedy last month as she testified for easier access to protective orders before the House Judiciary Committee, a body notoriously hostile to this and other reforms sought by advocates for victims of domestic violence.</p>
<p>The committee has scuttled similar bills in previous years, and judging by the reception it gave Ms. Castillo, chances don&#8217;t seem much improved this year. What else to make of the argument that no problem exists because <em>only</em> (their emphasis) 14 percent of protective orders are denied because the standard of proof isn&#8217;t met? That&#8217;s not much of a consolation for Ms. Castillo or the others who make up that 14 percent. As Ms. Castillo told the committee: &#8220;When you&#8217;re in fear of your life and for your children, and you make that move to step out and do something about it, and then you go to get a protective order, and you don&#8217;t get it, it&#8217;s just really devastating. . . . It&#8217;s like a discouragement to make a change in your life that needs to be made.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Also see: <a title="Permanent Link to Attention Maryland: You Have Some Pigs Loose in the Legislature" rel="bookmark" href="../2010/03/01/attention-maryland-you-have-some-pigs-loose-in-the-legislature/">Attention Maryland: You Have Some Pigs Loose in the Legislature</a></strong></span></p>
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		<title>Attention Maryland: You Have Some Pigs Loose in the Legislature</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 01:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nancy Carroll</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A bill is in the Maryland Legislature now, HB 700 (Del Hecht, et al.), which seeks to alter the standard of proof for issuing a final protective order from clear and convincing evidence to a preponderance of the evidence.  If a judge finds from the preponderance of the evidence that the alleged abuse has occurred, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>A bill is in the Maryland Legislature now, <a href="http://house.state.md.us/2010rs/fnotes/bil_0000/hb0700.pdf" target="_blank">HB 700</a> (<a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa12239.html" target="_blank">Del Hecht</a>, <em>et al.</em>), which seeks to alter the standard of proof for issuing a final protective order from clear and convincing evidence to a preponderance of the evidence.  If a judge finds from the preponderance of the evidence that the alleged abuse has occurred, the judge may grant a final protective order for relief from abuse to any eligible person.  It was first read to the Judiciary Committee on February 24th, and they had a hearing on it the 25th.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Amy Castillo testified at this hearing, as she tried to get a protective order in 2007, but was denied.  Her husband <a href="http://www.mahalo.com/mark-castillo">Mark Castillo</a> had their three children on visitation after when he murdered all three in a Maryland hotel, drowning them in the bathtub.  At the protective order hearing, her husband&#8217;s lawyer questioned her (from the <a href="http://wjz.com/local/amy.castillo.mark.2.690562.html" target="_blank">transcripts</a>):</strong></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Douglas Cohn&#8211;Defense Attorney, Mark&#8217;s Attorney: &#8220;He threatened to kill your children and you, and you made love to him that night.&#8221; </span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;">Amy Castillo: &#8220;Yes, because I&#8217;m scared of him.  If I act scared or upset or emotional, he really reacts to that, and I didn&#8217;t want him to know I was trying to get a protective order.&#8221; </span></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">With this, the judge denied the protective order.   <strong>Judge Joseph Dugan</strong> ruled &#8220;There is not clear and convincing evidence that the alleged acts of abuse occurred.&#8221;  This left Mark Castillo the opportunity to murder the children.</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Fast forward to the hearing on February 25th, where witnesses testified to the committee about this travesty.   <a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13381.html">Delegate Luiz Simmons</a> took it upon himself during the hearing to further question Amy Castillo&#8217;s credibility because she had engaged in sex with Mark after being threatened.  Apparently Del. Simmons does not realize that abusive men often center their lives around their genitals and the need to have them serviced.  One can go on any of the many men&#8217;s rights forums and read them denigrating women, especially if they aren&#8217;t being serviced.  This is one from &#8220;<a href="http://mgtow.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=general&amp;action=display&amp;thread=415" target="_blank">Men Going Their Own Way</a>&#8220;:</strong></span></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #333333;"><strong>&#8220;I was driving back from a meeting this morning, thinking about my wife, and I really wanted to go home, and simply beat the living shit out of her. I have been supporting everyone for years, working my ass off, and my wife has not done one single fucking thing to make my life easier, to encourage me, or to help me with anything that&#8217;s bugging me. She&#8217;s on the PTA, the board of her preschool, she teaches art at the elementary school, is involved in a book club, and on and on and on. Her calendar is ridiculous. But I am some kind of fucking afterthought. I&#8217;m the engine that powers this entire thing, and <span style="color: #ff0000;">I haven&#8217;t gotten laid in months</span>.  She takes care of the children during the week, fine. But we have a housecleaner, because actually cleaning the fucking house is beneath her. We take shirts to the dry cleaner, because she couldn&#8217;t possibly iron them. Clean laundry is in piles in the garage, because she can&#8217;t be expected to fold it. On weekends, I&#8217;m apparently her assistant. I can&#8217;t wait for Sunday night to come, when I can get out and head back to the office. And every day there&#8217;s some new example of truly shitty behavior &#8212; a bad attitude for any human. For example, last night she was at her fucking PTA meeting, which ran from 7 until 11. I went to bed, and had just turned the light out when she shows up at the front door, and starts ringing the fucking doorbell. She didn&#8217;t have her keys. She then informed me that she never does. I pointed out that having keys to your own house might be a smart thing to do. And she acts like that&#8217;s some kind of major insult, and then launches into a description of what happened at this meeting. I stopped her, and said something like &#8220;You know, I was in bed and almost asleep, and you got me up.&#8221; It didn&#8217;t even occur to her that a) I would actually mind being jerked out of bed by the doorbell; b) I wasn&#8217;t interested in a blow-by-blow at that moment. Finally, after years of this, the truth is starting to sink in, and I&#8217;m devolving into this serious, angry person to be around. All the normal, considerate stuff I used to do I don&#8217;t. I don&#8217;t talk to her unless I have to, and not any longer than necessary. She catches me looking at her sometimes, and the expression she sees on my face frightens her, I think. Somewhere along in here, she&#8217;s going to ask me if something&#8217;s wrong, and I&#8217;m going to start screaming at her. I&#8217;ve tried marriage counseling. I&#8217;ve tried listening, and giving, and being nice. Now, I&#8217;m going to try fear and intimidation.&#8221;</strong></span></p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_7672" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 190px"><strong><strong><a href="http://rightsformothers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/simmons.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-7672" title="simmons" src="http://rightsformothers.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/simmons.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="250" /></a></strong></strong><p class="wp-caption-text">Del. Luiz Simmons, Montgomery County</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Do you think Amy Castillo saw that certain expression on Mark&#8217;s face (besides just outright being told he would kill her and the kids)? Do you think she had to have sex for her and her kid&#8217;s safety? You betcha. Nobody likes having sex with an abusive asshole. It&#8217;s like a submissive gesture to try and calm the savage beast.  You don&#8217;t think she had to<em> fake it</em> (think <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nNhOH4Y0bI&amp;feature=related" target="_blank">Meg Ryan in When Harry Met Sally</a>)?  Many women have to given in to having sex to avoid being treated worse.  But this <a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13381.html" target="_blank">pig</a> thinks it makes her less credible.  Del. Luiz Simmons and his John Edward&#8217;s haircut need to come out of the fog and <a href="http://dastardlydads.blogspot.com/2010/02/76-killer-dads-fathers-who-ended-their.html" target="_blank">look at all the children being murdered by fathers</a> who are not happy with child support, not happy with shared parenting, or just want to punish their ex-wives by taking the children permanently from them (by murdering them).  Over and over again, many of these horrific deaths of children can be traced back to a judge who wouldn&#8217;t issue a protective order. </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Delegate Simmons demonstrated his love and wish to protect batterers in the last session.  This is from <a href="http://maryland-politics.blogspot.com/2009/03/luiz-simmons-abuser-expungement-bill.html" target="_blank">Maryland Politics Watch</a>:</strong></span></p>
<blockquote>
<h5>Tuesday, March 10, 2009</h5>
<h4>Luiz Simmons’ Abuser Expungement Bill (Updated)</h4>
<p><strong>Delegate Luiz Simmons (D-17), who is a <a href="http://www.manta.com/coms2/dnbcompany_3n44r">trial attorney</a>, has introduced <a href="http://house.state.md.us/2009rs/billfile/hb1181.htm">a bill enabling accused domestic abusers to expunge their court records</a>. No, folks, we are not making this up.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>This bill most likely won&#8217;t make it out of the committee, thanks to <a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13381.html">Delegate Simmons</a>.  If you are from Maryland, how many more women and children are you willing to see murdered?  If you are from Maryland, you need to know who <em>your</em> employees are, the people <em>you pay</em> to speak for you, who are doing this <em>to the children of Maryland</em>, who questioned Amy Castillo&#8217;s credibility, and decide if you want them to work for you any more when you go vote in the next election.  Here are the <a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/com/05jud.html">Judicial Committee</a> members&#8230;.do they work <em>for you</em>?<br />
</strong></span></p>
<p><strong><em>Appointed by House Speaker:</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa12315.html">Joseph F. Vallario, Jr.</a>, <em>Chair</em> (410) 841-3488, (301) 858-3488</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa12301.html">Samuel I. Rosenberg</a>, <em>Vice-Chair</em> (410) 841-3297, (301) 858-3297</strong></p>
<ul><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13208.html">Curtis S. (Curt) Anderson</a></strong><strong> </strong><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14613.html">Benjamin S. Barnes</a></strong><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13966.html">Jill P. Carter</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14616.html">Frank M. Conaway, Jr.</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13990.html">Kathleen M. Dumais</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13998.html">Don H. Dwyer, Jr.</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14007.html">William J. Frank</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13980.html">J. B. Jennings</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa02780.html">Kevin Kelly</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14624.html">Benjamin F. Kramer</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13794.html">Susan C. Lee</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14644.html">Gerron S. Levi</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14001.html">Susan K. McComas</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13999.html">Tony McConkey</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13969.html">Victor R. Ramirez</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14632.html">Todd L. Schuler</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa13381.html">Luiz R. S. Simmons</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14002.html">Michael D. Smigiel, Sr.</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14636.html">Kriselda Valderrama</a></strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.msa.md.gov/msa/mdmanual/06hse/html/msa14637.html">Jeffrey D. Waldstreicher</a></strong></ul>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong> </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Also see the Washington Post story on this:</strong> </span> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/03/03/AR2010030303476.html?referrer=emailarticle"><strong>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/03/03/AR2010030303476.html?referrer=emailarticle</strong></a></p>
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