28.Jun.2010 Call to Action: Let Your Voice Be Heard on the Responsible Fatherhood Programs

These are YOUR tax dollars.  I would have no beef if they helped all noncustodial parents, but the groups that get these funds only help fathers.  I KNOW, I’VE TRIED.  The House Ways and Means Committee held a hearing recently, loaded with the father’s rights guys.  We need to get our voice heard too.  The committee I was told will take comments until JULY 1, 2010.  Please let your voice be heard on this.  Questions that would be good to ask are:

1.  Why do you only help fathers and not mothers, isn’t that discrimination?  

2.  Isn’t it against the law to discriminate against one gender and help the other when the same conditions exist for both?

3.  What makes fathers more important than mothers?  (Why should either be more important (sans abuse)?)

Here is the information to submit your comment for the record:

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 Name

Organization (if applicable)

Address

Phone Number

Contact E-mail Address

Title of Hearing  

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Here is the information on the hearing:

June 17, 2010

Subcommittee on Income Security and Family Support

Hearing to Review Responsible Fatherhood Programs

B-318 Rayburn House Office Building – beginning at 10:00 AM

FOCUS OF THE HEARING:  

The hearing will focus on the effectiveness of Responsible Fatherhood Programs in improving the relationship between non-custodial parents and their children, as well as their ability to provide financial support.  

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You can watch our hearing live here.

Click here for a printable list of witnesses. 

Hearing Advisory

Hearing to Review Responsible Fatherhood Programs

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There are 3 Comments to "Call to Action: Let Your Voice Be Heard on the Responsible Fatherhood Programs"

  • solving4x says:

    Another idea is to discuss the financial challenges women often face during and after the relationship has ended. The more reasonable and factual your letter is, the better.

    Be sure to send a copy to our Vice President, Joe Biden. Without him would we have a Violence Against Women Act? Joe has been on the front lines of our fight for years. He’s the real deal.

    How much longer will we bear silent witness? The Father’s groups are counting on us to not fight back. Surprised?

    Forward this call to action to local advocates, family, friends, survivors, and professionals in the field. I am.

  • Laura A says:

    Please send me information on who to contact in the state of Maryland. I would like any and all advocate groups who fight for mothers rights against abusive fathers. I am in the middle of a custody fight for my two and a half year old daughter from her abusive , porn addicted, cocaine addicted father. He previously hired an Attorney who also happened to be a former prosecutor for the same Circuit Court that we are fighting for custody in. Now here is the twist. my daughter’s father’s attorney ( Trevor Keissling) well his wife also works for the same Circuit Court that I am fighting for custody in and now she is a Circuit Court Judge there. Her name is Laura Keissling. Just recently Trevor Keissling removed himself as my daughter’s father’s attorney from the case. (I’m glad of that because her dad was getting away with neglect of my daughter). Probably related to the fact that his wife is now a Judge there, but my point is the damage is already done. I have done nothing wrong and am a loving mother to my daughter, but I just had a merits hearing with her father for an increase in child support and for full custody of her and the judge gave him full legal custody and removed all of my legal rights from me. I am the only parent who has carried full medical insurance for her and during the time that my daughter is with her father she lives with five different baby sitters 100 percent of the time. One babysitter that she stays over night with every other weekend that her father has her is a full blown crack addict that has a lengthy criminal record for drugs and violence. Her father never takes care of her because he spends all of his time with prostitutes on his weekends assigned to her. She has never really been cared for by her father and he openly and publicly admitted to this on the stand in the court room, even bragging to the Judge that everyone else takes care of his daughter for him and so what.. He has a right to go out on the weekends. I am appalled. He has told the judge I am crazy and called me names to the judge he has called my adult children names when they have come to court hearings to testify an my behalf. He is a racist, he is discriminatory to females he is a bigot and openly has used names about these things openly in court. He gave his weekend his baby sitter legal rights to my daughter through a hand written letter to take care of all her medical needs if she is injured while he is caring for her and I have no legal rights to even take her to the doctor’s if she gets hurt with me . I have to contact the babysitter or her father even though I am the health insurance policy holder for her. I complained about signs of possible signs of sexual abuse while she is on her father’s time and the court punished me by not believing me and eliminating all of my legal rights. I NEED YOUR HELP.. I sent out a request a few months ago but haven’t heard from anyone about who to contact. I myself contacted the women’s sexual assault center here in Maryland to act as my daughter’s Neutral legal attorney in this custody case to help her and they said they would represent her by paying for all of her legal expenses and the court denied my request to allow this organization to represent her and took away all of my legal rights to my daughter. I have all the pictures one would need to show black eyes on my daughter’s face when she is returned to me form coming back from her father’s house. I have made the police report take pictures of the bruises on her face and her split open lip and I have pictures of black eyes and injuries to her body and have had hearings for this abuse only for her father to get away with it every time I’ve complained. Now the court has ordered a custody evaluation because her father is telling the courts that I’m nuts, even though he has been under the care of a mental health professional for the past several years for bi polar/ manic depression he has tried to petition the court to lock ME AWAY in a mental institution. He even went to the local police department in Edgewater and asked for their help in killing me saying he would only kill me if he could get away with it.. I have the police report from this incident and they did NOTHING about it and came to his defense. The court won’t summons his medical records from his physician. I have a paper with his enrollment is a sex web sight where he lists his name address and all of his personal information trying to purchase prostitutes for sex and they won’t summons his records form this website even though it links directly to the computer at his home.. I have an audio tape if him screaming at the top of his lugs at my baby in his home and she was only about 9 months old at the time with a severe ear infection and other medical issues and she was in sever pain and he is screaming at her and she is crying out for mommy screaming at the top of her lungs pleading with him in terror saying no daddy no!!! I am not going to allow the Circuit Court to trash me as a mother and get away with removing me from protecting my child . She is only two years old now. She loves me and is terrified of her father. I want to fight back legally and I need an attorney who is going to reverse this Legal custody and fight for my daughter’s life. We have one more hearing coming up for permanent custody of her and I need help right now.. Her life will be ruined. I have used all my savings ( over $15, 000.00 ) With my legal expenses and am out of money. HE HAS REPEATEDLY FALSLEY THREATENED TO ACCUSE OF OF ABUSE AGAINST MY OWN DAUGHTER IF I DO NOT DROP/ REVERSE THE COMPLAINT FOR CHILD SUPPORT AGAINST HIM. I contacted the YWCA in Anne Arundel County and they do not have funds to help me. Please find someone to help me. Anne Arundel County is notorious for eliminating mother’s legal rights and giving children to abusive fathers .. Please help me…

  • Laura, this comment slipped by me. I will contact you…

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